A Practical Indian Philosophy

 

 

 

 

Sundarakaandda

302    Dohaa:   Taata svarga apavarga sukha, dhari-yay tulaa ayka anga:
Toola na taahi sakala mili, jo sukha lava satasanga:: Sk4

302. Lankinee said to Hanumaan, "O brother! In a pair of scales, if all the bliss of heaven and of liberation from rebirth is placed in one scale, and the bliss of one moment of satyasanga in the other, the former cannot reach up to the latter."

Hanumaan's blow to demoness Lankinee, the gatekeeper of Lankaa, reminded her of Brahmaa's warning. (See (302) in the Story) 

How can the bliss of satyasanga or holy company exceed the combined bliss of heaven and freedom from the cycle of rebirth? 

It is the conscious 'I,' which acts, suffers and enjoys, the soul does not. The liberation of the soul occurs only when the conscious 'I' that binds it, is annihilated. (See  450[22, 23]) Without this ‘I,' there is no enjoyment of the bliss of liberation. The bliss of the ‘I,' which is de-activated for the surroundings, is in the samaadhi or in other states, which are not for all but for the very rare only. That bliss is not communicable for others to experience it. (RK 169-70, 196) 

None comes back from heaven to tell us about it. A description does not give us its taste. We can imagine the bliss of God's company as superior to the combined loving relationships of all our near and dear ones. (See 294) So, for the largest number of people, Tulaseedaasa suggests the highest bliss available, that is, in the company of men of divine vision in satyasanga

Satyasanga has charm for both seekers and gurus. The joy of the gurus in seeing and in praying for their disciples' spiritual progress and of the disciples in the company of holy men is an experience for tasting bliss beyond worldly joy. That is why Shiva also prayed for satyasanga, to increase his bliss by sharing it with devotees. (See 7, 51, 361, 394) Recluses, however, prefer to avoid any company, worldly or spiritual. (See 251

We can attain unending and indescribable bliss of jnaana in life and freedom from rebirth. We can continue to enjoy this bliss by becoming a devotee of the personal God as in Shree Raama or Shree Krishna. This enables us to live in this bliss as a jeevanamukta as Janaka or Karmayogi of the Geetaa as Arjuna did. Swami Ramakrishna says that God gives a commission to gurus to live on the earth after attaining jnaana. (RK 168, 465-66) (See Geetaa 5:21, 6:28, 14:21-26) A vijnaanee is a jnaanee who becomes a devotee of the personal God for experiencing the highest bliss of jnaana. He enjoys it best in satyasanga. He increases his bliss by sharing it with a congenial company. Satyasanga is the best club for the holy. 

303    Chaupaayi: Garala sudhaa ripu kara-yi mitaa-yee: gopada sindhu anala sitalaa-yee::
Garu-a sumayru raynu-sama taahee: Raama kripaa kari chitavaa jaahee:: Sk5

303. Lankinee advised Hanumaan, "When Shree Raama is kind, poison becomes elixir, enemies friends, ocean small as a puddle made by a cow's hoof, fire cold and as heavy a mountain as Sumayru becomes light as dust."

When God is kind, obstacles become helpers. Aversion to God makes helpers obstacles. Aversion to God is forgetting and acting contrary to our divinity, which is compassion and benevolence. Thereby we ourselves create obstacles. (See 211)  To ensure God's kindness for our success, we should establish a link to Him to remind us to stick to the correct path by our faith that God will see us through life. (See 26

304    Chaupaayi:   Aba mohi bhaa bharosa Hanumantaa: binu Hari-kripaa milahin nahin santaa:: Sk7

304. Vibheeshana said, "O Hanumaan! Now I believe that without God's grace one does not meet men of divine vision."

  Vibheeshana confirms our belief that God sends His own messenger or a guru to the door of His seeker without his searching for a guide just as He sent Hanumaan to Vibheeshana. The worse our distress and deeper our yearning for God as Tulaseedaasa's, the faster we receive a guru or relief. (See 227) On meeting Kaakabhushunddi, Garurha also said, 

304A    Chaupaayi:   Santa bisud-dha milahin pari tayhee: chitavahin Raama kripaa kari jayhee:: Uk69

Holy persons meet him who receives Shree Raama's kindness. Shree Raama is shown to describe holy persons in 370-375. Influenced by maya, the less fortunate people neither feel the need for holy persons, nor recognize nor welcome them. When these people turn to God, He sends holy persons to them who are then welcome. (See 464) Our nature averse to our divinity distances us from anything holy. When holy persons come to us it is obvious that the impact upon us of some of our sins is destroyed to attract holiness to us. (See 49, 383-384

305    Chaupaayi:   Praata lay-yi jo naama hamaaraa: tayhi dina taahi na mila-yi ahaaraa:: Sk7

305. Hanumaan explained to Vibheeshana that monkeys were so ill-omened that if a man even mentioned their name in the morning he would starve during the day. Seeing them was much worse. 

Vibheeshana asked Hanumaan if Shree Raama would accept him. As a demon, Vibheeshana was so full of unholy tendencies that he could not perform any meritorious deeds or develop devotion to Shree Raama. (See 383-384) Hanumaan assured Vibheeshana that even ill-omened monkeys received Shree Raama's refuge. So, the most fallen should not lose hope of redemption. If the fallen seeks, God takes him into His care. This is God's promise proved by devotees' experience. (See 204 and Geetaa 9:22) 

In gratitude to Shree Raama, Hanumaan mentions his fault as a monkey to Vibheeshana to show that Shree Raama ignores His seeker's faults. Even though a monkey, Hanumaan's exemplary selfless devotion is worthy of emulation. This makes him holy for our worship. Our worship of Shree Raama's devotee pleases his Lord, which is our objective. (See 184, 187

306    Dohaa:   Pranata-paala Raghunaayaka, karunaa-sindhu kharaari:
Ga-yay sarana Prabhu raakhihahin, tava aparaadha bisaari:: Sk22

306. Hanumaan advised Raavana, "Shree Raama nourishes him who merely pays obeisance to Him. He is the ocean of compassion for the suffering and is the enemy of the demoniac. Forgetting a seeker's faults He gives him refuge."

Our faith in God's forgiving nature should be as firm as that of Bharata who went to Shree Raama in the forest with the confidence that Shree Raama would forgive his faults. This faith alters our fate when we seek relief from God. (See 50, 185[15, 16, 19, 24], 325) We should first repent and resolve not to commit wrong acts. The advice is that ‘No ceremony of expiation is as effective as sincere repentance. You cannot deceive the Lord by insincerity or ruses.’ (BS 4 101) Only after this firm resolve, should we seek refuge. (See 318 and Geetaa 9:30) It is a different matter what God does for us in his sweet mercy. (See 261) Without the sincerity of this resolve reflecting in daily conduct of benevolence for all, we can do wrong in the night, repeat God's name during the day and expect to be saved. This is cheating ourselves. We cannot cheat God. 

307    Chaupaayi:   Deena-dayaalu-biruda sambhaaree:: harahu Naatha mama sankatta bhaaree:: Sk27

307. Seetaa requested Hanumaan to convey to Shree Raama, "You are famous for your compassion for the distressed and wretched. O my Lord and Master! Rescue me from deep suffering to save your reputation."

Seetaa invoked Shree Raama's nature of being the refuge of those in distress and who had none to care for them. None could know that nature better than Seetaa. This couplet is famous as the effective prayer of the irredeemable. (See 227, 261

308    Dohaa:   Naama paaharu divasa nisi, dhyaana tumhaara kapaatta:
Lochana-nija-pada-jantrita, jaahin praana kayhi baatta:: Sk30

308. Hanumaan described Seetaa's condition to Shree Raama, "The repetition of your name is her security guard. Her contemplation of you is the barred doors. Looking at her feet, her eyes are the locks. Which way can her life escape" from the prison of her body? 

Hanumaan brings out that with God's name on Seetaa's lips as her security guard, if death takes her away before she is rescued, the guard's failure will remove people's faith in God's name. Second, the most dependable security and hope even Seetaa could secure for her in her predicament were the repetition of Shree Raama's name to which Tulaseedaasa gave so much importance. 

309    Chaupaayi:   Seetaa kai ati bipati bisaalaa: binahin kahay bhali deena-dayaalaa:: Sk31

309. Hanumaan continued, "Seetaa's distress is so overwhelming, O compassionate Lord, that it is better not to mention it."

Seetaa's distress would be unbearable to hear. Its description would smear Shree Raama's reputation of compassion because he could not rescue her. Even hinting at the distress made him an accused. 

310 Chaupaayi:   Sunu kapi tohi samaana upakaaree: nahin ko-u sura nara muni tanu-dhaaree::
Prati-upakaara kara-un kaa toraa: sanamukha ho-i na sakata mana moraa:: 
Sunu suta tohi urina main naaheen: daykhay-un kari bichaara mana maaheen::  Sk32

310. Shree Raama said to Hanumaan, "O monkey! None among gods, men and sages did so much for me as you. What can I do in return? I cannot even look at you in the eye. Considering everything, I find that I cannot repay your debt."

Hanumaan achieved what even gods could not achieve. He penetrated into Raavana's fortress of Lankaa, destroyed his pride of victory over gods, burnt down Lankaa and brought news about Seetaa, and all this in a day and a half. It was all out of his selfless love for Shree Raama. For all this, Hanumaan gave credit to Shree Raama's grace because Hanumaan knew that he was merely Shree Raama's instrument and apparent doer of all deeds and Shree Raama was their real doer. (See 66

Shree Raama's response to Hanumaan's selfless service shows that while we may forget to thank God for His endless mercies, He thanks and praises those who serve Him. (See 205, 262) Shree Raama exemplifies an ideal social norm here. Expression of gratitude is the mark of the civilized; and forgetfulness of expression of gratitude or ingratitude that of the barbarian. 

On receiving news of Shree Raama's return from exile to Ayodhyaa, Bharata also thanked Hanumaan.

310A    Chaupaayi:   Naahina taata urina main tohee: aba Prabhu-charita sunaavahu mohee:: Uk2

O brother Hanumaan! I can never be free from your obligation. Please tell me all about Shree Raama. 

In the instant couplets, Shree Raama is shown to treat Hanumaan superior even to gods for achieving what gods could not achieve. (See 89-91)  This is also a reason why devotees worship Hanumaan to emulate his exemplary service to God. Service of God for us has many forms, which are obviously easier than Hanumaan's achievements. (See 444

311    Dohaa:   Sachiva baida guru teeni jaun, priyaa bolahin bha-ya aasa:
Raaja dharma tana teeni kara, ho-yi baygihee naasa:: Sk32

311. Out of attachment, or fear or greed, if a minister, or a physician or a guru says the pleasant and not the appropriate, the king's domain, the patient's body and the disciple's faith in dharma, respectively, are quickly destroyed. 

Any advice motivated by any of the six passions may harm and not help the recipient. Selfless beneficial advice helps though sometimes not instantly or in the manner of the recipient's choice. (See 15

This proverb brings out the power of our uncontrolled six passions, which change a benefactor into a malefactor. It cautions us against slipping into error by over concentration on practicality in our daily life, which can be motivated unknowingly by laziness, greed or selfishness. Numerous similar popular proverbs and allusions to tenets of religion in folk songs and dialects made up to a little extent for the lack of gurus for the Indian masses and sustained the under current of Sanaatana Dharma in all aspects of daily life in India. (A Proverb)

312    Chaupaayi:   Jaun aapana chaha-yi kalyaanaa: sujasu sumati subha-gati sukha naanaa::
So para-naari-lilaara gosaa-yeen: tajahu chautha kay chanda kee naa-yeen:: Sk38

312. Vibheeshana advised Raavana, "To keep secure their wellbeing, fame, wisdom, noble path, its destination and all manner of happiness, the wise avoid a lustful glance at a woman other than their spouse. They avoid it as a bad omen such as seeing the moon in Bhaadaun."

Lust, one of the six Devils within us, destroys all that is worthwhile for us because it brings us down from our divinity and humanness to the level of an animal. A cloudless moonlit night in monsoon months of August and September, corresponding to the month of Bhaadaun in the lunar calendar in India sometimes portends poor rains and crop, a major disaster all round. Thus arose the superstition mentioned in the couplet round which some Puranic tales are woven. (A Lesson in Good Conduct)

313    Dohaa:    Kaama krodha mada lobha saba, Naatha naraka kay pantha:
Saba pari-hari Raghubeerahee, bhajahu bhjahin jayhi santa:: Sk38

313. Vibheeshana continued, "My master! Lust, anger, the intoxication of pride and greed are roads to hell. Giving them up, please remember Shree Raama continually as all spiritually advanced people do."

For the power of lust please see 249. Frustration of lust and greed creates anger and pride. Amassing of wealth unscrupulously, ostentatious living, profligacy, falling of ethical standards in personal, social and economic life, the callousness of the rich towards the poor and crime, all these sicknesses of society result from lust and greed primarily. History records the destruction of empires by lust, greed and anger. 

The three passions give rise to attachment or the feeling of 'mine,' pride and envy. (See 272[10-11, 14-16] and Geetaa 16:21) Some need satiety with desires of passions before they become averse to them. Some are born with aversion and all can get control over passions by turning to Shree Raama. 

314    Chaupaayi:   Sumati kumati saba kay ura rahaheen: naatha puraana nigama asa kahaheen::
Jahaan sumati tanha sampati naanaa: jahaan kumati tanha bipati nidaanaa::  Sk40

314  Vibheeshana continued, "My master! Vedas and Puranas declare that wisdom and folly always dwell in our heart. Where wise counsel prevails there is all kinds of prosperity. Unwise counsel invites destruction in the end." (See Geetaa 5:15) 

Saraswatee grants wisdom and Lakshmee grants wealth. Some Puranas describe both goddesses as unfriendly to each other. The Puranas give Saraswatee pre-eminence. She can give us happiness even with a minimum of wherewithal which Lakshmee bestows. Unfortunately in their greed, some Brahmins and priests exploited the belief in the unfriendliness of the goddesses. 

This happened when society gave up its duty to make the Brahmin varna free from worry about their livelihood to facilitate their concentration on the acquisition of Brahma-jnaana for its free service of society and preparing seekers for Brahmajnaana as their varnadharma or selfless professional duty. Bereft of sustenance, some Brahmins arrogated to themselves Saraswatee's munificence, which was Knowledge. This deprived only the greedy Brahmins of the benefit of Brahmajnaana and transformed them into a caste. This caste was incapable of the erstwhile selfless benevolence of its former varna. This caste left society to search for its happiness on its own. 

Ignorantly, society turned to wealth and its Goddess Lakshmee. Failing to secure continual happiness from material wealth and experiencing misery instead, when society sought counsel of the knowledgeable in the Brahmin caste or priests for relief from its misery, their demands made both communities rich. In this process, however, society and Brahmin varna both lost the worthwhile legacy of Brahmajnaana for the prosperity of society. Gradually all Brahmins became a caste. 

Vibheeshana emphasizes here that both goddesses are always present together. When Saraswatee or wisdom takes precedence, the earning and spending of wealth is according to dharma which accords respect to wealth, which pleases Lakshmee. (See 111

Vibheeshana's advice to bring round Raavana to the right path in 312 to 314 is relevant even today to transform individuals' ignorance into knowledge to make society healthy where it is sick. (See 66, 240[1-6, 9, 10, 21]) 

This proverb also emphasizes the relationship between knowledge and ignorance. The daily practice of basic beliefs of Sanaatana Dharma and their philosophy create the harmony of the heart and the intellect that is common sense. This common sense made a stable and resounding success of Western democracy and other post independence achievements of no mean merit. Temporary absence of exemplary leadership today caused fall in values at some places in India. This fall is indefensible even if it is common elsewhere. Selflessness or karma-yoga by all can restore values and prosperity in individuals and society both sooner than one can think. This is possible through development of faith in all in the reality of God for our succour by knowledge of the practical core of or one single spirituality in eight religions in India in India. (See Geetaa 3:21) (A Lesson in Good Conduct and a Proverb)

315    Chaupaayi:    Umaa santa ka-yi ihahi barhaa-yee: manda karata jo kara-yi bhalaa-yee:: Sk41

315. Shiva said to Paarvatee, "O Umaa! The greatness of holy men is that they do good even to those who hurt them."

The wise know that none can hurt them. So, there is no offender for revenge. (See 295) While distancing themselves from the offender, the wise do good even to him if he comes to the wise for help. This help is to the wise themselves ultimately under the law of karma. It is wisdom to act invariably selflessly and to ignore others' faulty or offending conduct. Selflessness prevents our accumulating consequences for our misery and ensures our happiness. (See 370) The apparent offender may or may not get his punishment from the state. We are not concerned with his karma, punishment and consequences from God. 

316    Chaupaayi: Saadhu avagyaa turata Bhavaanee: kara kalyaana akhila kai haanee:: Sk42

316. Shiva continued, "O Bhawaanee! A man quickly destroys his wellbeing the moment he insults a seeker of self-realization or a devotee of God."

Unless we are alert, our insidious pride sometimes insults and hurts the meritorious. (See 453) Shiva brings out that the greater the gravity of the wrong the faster its retribu-tion. Conversely, the greater is the merit of the act, the faster its beneficial consequence. Our ignorance of the law of karma makes us suspect both beliefs and we continue to err. It is knowledge to believe in the law of karma and avoid error. We have to have faith that under the supremacy of God, the law governs the form, impact, sequence and timing of all events in the world logically and fairly. We should not doubt it if it appears unfair to us because a loving God is never unfair. (See 185 [2-8, 10, 11-13, 23, 25, 27])  (A Lesson in Good Conduct and a Proverb)

317    Dohaa:   Saranaagata kahun jay tajahin, nija anahita anumaani:
Tay nara paanvara paapa-ma-ya, tinhahin bilokata haani:: Sk43

317. Shree Raama said to Sugreeva, "When one seeks their protection, those who do not protect one for fear of harm to themselves, are vile. One meets misfortune if one even looks at these unhelpful people."

The selfish are an evil influence for avoiding as ill-omened. Those who offer refuge even at some cost to them are selfless and therefore auspicious and holy. 

In ignorance of Sanaatana Dharma, even some educated Indians today think that this religion is merely for self-advancement, selfish and of no use to society. Amongst others, the instant couplet shows that those Hindus who do not serve and sacrifice for others do not follow this religion. In this religion, we cannot reap bliss or freedom from misery and fear even for our selfish self without sowing it. We do this sowing only through selfless service of those around us. The turn of good fortune earned by past deeds into adversity for the selfish and greedy is not a rare phenomenon. The annihilation of the self or of selfishness is the first step for both material and spiritual progress for each of us in Sanaatana Dharma. Sanaatana Dharma enjoins selfless service of society even after an individual attains its objective of liberation from rebirth in life. (See 234, 386 and Chapter 3 of the Geetaa) (Shree Raama's Advice to Vibheeshana Begins) (A Lesson in Good Conduct and a Proverb)

318    Chaupaayi:   Kotti bipra-badha laagahin jaahoo: aa-yay sarana taja-un nahin taahoo::
Sanamukha ho-yi jeeva mohi jabaheen: janama kotti agha naasahin tabaheen::
Nirmala mana jana so mohi paavaa: mohi kapatta chhala chhidra na bhaavaa:: Sk44

318. Shree Raama continued, "I shall not forsake even a killer of millions of Brahmins if he seeks my protection. The moment a being faces me all the sins of his millions of previous lives are destroyed. (See 72, 269) Only the pure in heart reach me. I do not like hypocrites, cheats and fault finders."

To give refuge to the needy is dharma. To protect the oppressed and secure punishment for the oppressor is dynamic dharma. Dharma extends from charity to sacrifice of life for the good of others, for example, Mahatma Gandhi or a soldier in defence of his country. (See 430) Shree Raama describes His nature here, which is dharma personified. He also emphasizes His easy availability to all, be they sinners or saints, polluted or pure. (See 96, 204-205, 325) If we seek God or His refuge, we pray to Him to make us fit for our objective. For either objective, we must have a yearning for, and not neutrality, aversion or distrust towards Him. But see 33 and 347

Mind being the only instrument God gave us to raise us above our animal heritage, Indian sages went deep into its working and why and what makes it inefficient or efficient or weak or empowered and how. They examined its potential and found it to be limitless and available for our use. So they discovered methods for attaining it and making use of it. They discovered the benevolent and malevolent role of our five senses and six passions. They found that we needed control over them for the maximiza-tion of the power of our mind to unimaginable limits on one hand and on the other to secure freedom from need, disease and fear for ourselves, harmony for society and bliss for both through our selflessness. 

What are a polluted and a pure heart and mind? The main pollutants are the six passions, which create all our ignoble desires. On frustration of desires, we create more pollutants as grievances, malice, vengeance, cruelty, hypocrisy, anti-social thoughts and other vices. Other pollutants are doubts, anxiety and fear which arise from the ignorance of our reality as one with all in God and of the concept of God's grace supreme over the law of karma to give us relief from consequences of our misdeeds. Passions, as instruments of maya, maintain our ignore-ance, which forms our observable nature. (See 242

In almost all educational curricula, the absence of pre-eminence to train control of passions today shows that most of the educators are unaware of the importance of this control. Maybe, they feel helpless against passions. They may be unaware of the methods for securing this control. They do not know that the efficacy of methods makes their use our second nature for our excellence and power. Maybe their thinking is restrained by beliefs, ancient traditions or their scriptures to inquire into the role of senses and passions. It could be that they do not yet accept that uncontrolled senses and passions are the source of all reprehensible acts, crimes and misery without exception. Obviously they do not accept the importance of the control of passions as in Sanaatana Dharma. 

Advaita is the discovery that our reality is one with that of God . To be true it is oneness with His substance, nature, capacity and power. To be true we should be able to avail of this oneness for freedom of humanity and ourselves from our only problem of misery in its myriad forms including from need, disease and fear. This means that our mind should receive capacity and power to achieve any benevolent noble aim in life. If not, Advaita is not a truth. Shankaracharya the propounder of Advaita laid down that a purified mind and heart free from malice was a prerequisite for reaching Advaitic oneness with God and with His power. (See 241[23] and paragraphs 148 to 150 in the Chapter on the Philosophy) 

A pure heart is an important concept. (See 241[23] and Geetaa 6:24-28) A pure heart is in the identity of thought, word and deed in benevolence for all. ‘Pure Mind, Pure Intelligence, Pure Aatmaa are one and the same thing.’ (RK 524) ‘Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.’ (Matthew 5 : 8) As a mind gradually becomes more and more pure and the nearer it reaches in oneness with God, more and more power flows into the mind. It witnesses situations becoming more and more congenial and obstacles disappearing from its noble path.  In seeing or realizing God, the ordinary mind ceases to function. The pure mind has this experience. It is wisdom to secure a pure heart and mind for our continual success and happiness through a mind empowered thereby to achieve anything noble that we intend to achieve. 

We can purify the heart or mind to regain its inborn power to do the impossible. For this purpose, we associate with holy persons or satyasanga. From them we learn the role of our mind and apply this learning in daily life. (See 394) We have to realize that our own God resides in all who are therefore one with us in their reality. To live in this realization is jnaana. This purifies our mind by setting us on helping all and not hurting any by our thought, word and deed and on doing unto others as we would like them to do unto us. (See 17, 185[7, 10], 240[1-6, 9, 10, 21]) The law of karma teaches us that our malice towards the offender is ignorance. Wisdom is in seeking relief from God through right conduct in daily duties dedicated to God as our duty and in surrender of our ego or 'I' to Him. (See 265[5, 9, 11], 325, 327)  We must remember God whenever polluting thoughts enter our mind. (See 322 and Geetaa 11:54) These are the methods for getting control over our passions and for purifying our mind. 

We should try to understand our reality and concentrate upon it to develop mental detachment from the objective world because it is unreliable in our hour of need and its attractions pollute our mind. (See 400) We should aim for a purified mind one with intellect and aligned with our inmost Self or jeevaatmaa, which is God within us. (See 42[3, 6-13]) The alignment sublimates passions and negative tendencies and thoughts into constructive urges to use sublimated passions for benign pursuits. (See 272[10-11, 14-16]) Sublimated passions eliminate desires from our mind. With no desires, the mind ceases inter-ference in both the internal and external functioning of our body because desires generally cater to the demands of the body. Such a non-interfering mind allows free flow of energy from the cosmos to prevent and cure diseases and produce success in outward activities. These steps purify our mind and sum up discrimination or vivayka and renunciation or vairaagya with love for God through the service of man in daily life. The steps need understanding for conviction in them. They substitute our daily innocuous happiness and joy by a superior joy of achievement and freedom from need, disease and fear. 

Since it is difficult to keep our mind free from all thoughts, we should fill our purified mind with benign thoughts towards all. (See 259) Chapter 6 of the Geetaa describes Patanjali yoga as a way to purify the mind. (See 280) These steps purify the mind for attaining Knowledge or jnaana

The above steps curb or annihilate our egotism or 'I-ness.' When there is no egotism, there is no worldly desire and vice versa. This is because uncontrolled 'I' practically sums up and is the channel for the expression of all our passions which are the seeds of desires. When there is no desire there is no mind or the purified mind. It is one with the human soul or God and His inexhaustible power. The more pure a mind the more powerful it is. To help us persevere in following these apparently difficult steps to receive an empowered mind, God's grace helps us in many ways, which include bringing about favourable events. This is because if God does not help a sincere struggler to strengthen his confidence to reach Him, we wonder if He is a loving God for us to believe in Him. The favourable events are called good fortune by an ignorant observer. (See 458 and Geetaa 4:19, 18:49

Any form of yoga, that is, effort or path for spiritual advancement, includes the above steps more or less. All yogas are hypocrisy without the effort to purify the heart of conceit, greed, hatred and envy arising from unhealthy competition and attractions; in short, purify us of our senses and six passions. To purify ourselves and secure the best from God's grace for our rapid progress, we should be never demanding and always giving, be compassionate, should give up base desires, do a little sacrifice when needed and base all our thought, word and actions on love, namely, hurt none and help all. In the absence of opportunities for this conduct, we should pray for the well being of others. (See Geetaa 5:25, and 12:4) 

The purified mind supported by reverential faith in God is fit for a vision of God. It receives unasked cosmic powers but it is not attached to them. (See 107, 240[11-16, 22])    This is the experience of Swami Ramakrishna, Tulaseedaasa and other seers in India and of many saints elsewhere. (See 243) Outer fastidiousness should not be confused with inner purity. The former often is mere pride. 

The example of a pure mind is that of a baby. It is not attached to anything. There is complete identity in its thought, word and deed in bliss without the baby ever knowing it. Devotion to, and meditation upon, or thinking of God, removes all agitation from our mind. As long as we meditate, all thoughts leave our mind except the object of our meditation. The same is true of devotion. God corrects our path, if incorrect, and gradually fills our mind with Himself to make it a pure mind because as a loving mother, He cannot see us lose our way. When we surrender a specific fruit of our effort and trust God to choose it for us, we free our mind of anxiety and fear, which are pollutants. (See Geetaa 4:15) Our mind becomes absorbed in our effort or devotion as that of a baby absorbed in its toy. 

A pure mind is free from all desires and thoughts good or bad. Any thought is an impurity in the mind as sweet or bitter taste is in water, inasmuch as every thought has some quality. It is difficult to keep the mind void of thought. So, when free from duties, we fill the mind by watching God's glory around us, miracles in daily occurrences, introspection, contemplation, meditation, magnanimous thoughts and prayers for the less fortunate. Such a mind, which never dwells on our body and its demands, facilitates unhindered the elimination of disease from, and the rejuvenation of our body, as in deep sleep. Such a mind forms healthy habits. The prophylactic and curative chemistry of a pure mind for the body is being rediscovered now. (See 449

Trusting the potential of such a mind, we attain this today by a change in our attitude in our daily duties and dealings. This change needs firm faith that only God protects and nourishes us if we live for others because selflessness is God Himself. He exists for us. This faith is easy to acquire if we realize that there are innumerabe factors unknown to us that had all to be favourable for us to achieve anything. For making A grade in middle school, the student does not fall ill, not be bitten by an insect, hurt by tripping on the road, does not get a seizure and so on. So we should trust the Controller of the totality of factors for our safety and nourishment. Our unshakable faith and a constant link to God and benevolence in our conduct invite God's grace. (See 42, 107, 363) Hanumaan is an example of a mind filled with Shree Raama.

Shankaraachaarya suggested the discipline of satyasanga and of deeds dedicated in devotion to a personal God for the purification of the mind and intellect for realizing our identity with Brahman. The purification of our mind becomes easy for those who try to understand, believe and practise Vedanta. Vedanta is the basis for the cosmic power of a purified mind, the practical value of power and the methodology for receiving it for our benevolent use. This value is much more than we can imagine. (See 42[3, 6-13], 240[1-6, 9, 10, 21], 241[23]) It bears emphasis that we attain our highest objective through the above steps only if we have firm faith in the reality of God as our well-wisher. We have to have faith in the value of a purified mind, in the effectiveness of these steps and believe that those who purified their mind benefited by it. (See 2, 418

If the above steps scare us, both Shree Raama and Shree Krishna advise us the tiniest mantra. The mantra is to always remember them with a yearning for their grace, vision and company. A heart free from ill will, which is always filled with compassion and benevolence for others, particularly for the needy, is a pure heart. (See 259, 415 and Geetaa 8:7, 8:14, 12:2) Purification is also easy for a devotee of personal God in an Incarnation of God or a deity if his devotion rests on selfless actions all motivated by help all and hurt none.

319    Chaupaayi:   Jaun sabheeta aavaa sara-naa-yeen: rakhiha-un taahi praana kee naa-yeen:: Sk44

319. Shree Raama continued, "Anybody who, out of fear, calls out to me to save him, I protect him as my own life."

Fear is our greatest enemy. By imagining adverse factors to be real and twisting our perspective, we materialize danger from which we have to protect ourselves. Fear in us is normal, for example, of fire, and also abnormal due to ignorance. The first is necessary for our protection. We eliminate the second, which is destructive, by knowledge. Vibheeshana's fear of Raavana was normal and that of his past errors was abnormal. Fear of God, as a frightful potentate for punishing us for our sins, is abnormal because punishment of all sins would have more likely than not denuded the earth of human beings long ago. God is love that sustains man. He loves us as a mother loves her baby in spite of our faults and sins and always helps us in getting rid of them to reach the waiting mother rapidly. (See 205, 305) Fear of losing God's grace through doing wrong, hating another and falling into falsehood is healthy and normal. Our repentance for our past and sincere effort to eschew errors from now onwards and in the future secure God's love and grace to free us from all abnormal fears. (See Geetaa 9:30) 

Abnormal fear is also the fear of the non-fulfilment of the demands of our six passions. It is of losing our worldly possessions and loved ones. It is of the failure of our undertakings, of natural and other calamities. It is of the punishment for our past sins or errors, of transgressing the Divine Law or going against God. It is of our inadequacy or inferiority complex. It is of the unknown. Modern abnormal fears are called anxiety, alienation, tension, boredom, and frustration, which are all one of the major causes of all physical diseases. Physical science often fails to remove these fears. Caused by the ignorance of our reality, almost all of us have some of them some-time or other and sometimes almost as a disease. 

The prevention as also the cure for abnormal fears is in recollecting divinity as our real nature. It is in believing in God as a loving mother who cannot see us lose our way. She loves us with our faults and follies, protects us and takes every care to improve us. It is in understanding the role of senses and the six passions. It is in our faith in our capacity to control them to purify our mind. It is in the power of our purified mind and intellect aligned with our inmost Self to be our own master. It is in knowing that God is the real doer of all that we believe we do. It is in living in benevolence and love and hurt none, and thereafter in surrendering to God. This conduct invokes His grace to relieve us from our past to eliminate our present fears. It is in the benefit obtained from the strength of virtues derived from these remedies and from our unswerving faith in our divinity. Once we understand these as a cure and firmly believe in them, we rectify our attitude towards everything in life and benefit from our belief. Our proper attitude corrects all our thoughts and actions and fearlessness becomes our second nature. We do not need extra time or much labour to develop it. (See 42, 66, 272[10, 11, 14-16], 318, 325 and Geetaa 9:22, :30-31) 

320    Dohaa:    Sravana sujasu suni aa-ya-un Prabhu bhanjana-bhava-bheera:
Traahi traahi aarati-harana sarana sukhada raghubeera:: Sk45

320. Vibheeshana said to Shree Raama, "On hearing of your glorious reputation, I have come to you, my Lord Raghubeera. You protect a seeker, remove his sufferings and make him happy. Please save me."

God is kind without apparent reason. (See 261) He protects even the family of one who only bows to Him. At the end of our tether, we say in prayer, ‘We can do no more, you are all, take me into your refuge,' and resolve to eschew incorrect actions. This conduct makes all the attachment to our past deeds wear away. It secures us that rest, relief from our labour and bliss, which only God can give us. (See 226, 182 and Geetaa 9:30-31) 

321    Chaupaayi:   Baru bhala baasa naraka kara taataa: dushtta sanga jani day-yi bidhaataa:: Sk46

321. Shree Raama said to Vibheeshana, "O brother! A life in hell is better than wicked company, which may God never grant to us."

By bearing consequences of our sins or errors, we get free from hell. Wicked company makes us accumulate sins to put us in hell. 

Shree Raama is repeating here the prayer of a devotee of God. A devotee has three outer signs: faith in God through living in truth and love, humility before elders and the wise, and a healthy fear of wicked company. (A Lesson in Conduct)

322    Chaupaayi:   Taba lagi hrida-ya basata khala naanaa: lobha moha matsara mada maanaa::
Jaba lagi ura na basata Raghunaathaa: dharay chaapa-saayaka katti bhaathaa:: Sk47

322. Vibheeshana said to Shree Raama, "O Shree Raama! Armed with a bow and arrows, if you do not reside in a man's heart, greed, attachment, jealousy, the intoxication of pride and ego occupy that heart as wicked enemies."

Vibheeshana advises us to establish a vibrant link to Shree Raama to keep the mind immersed in Him. If the mind is immersed in Him and is inattentive to the rest, the senses, which convey impulses from the outside to the mind, are powerless. Without impulses passions are helpless. One immersed in study often hears no sounds. So, when any thought for action arises, Shree Raama is there to alert us to senses and passions. We can keep Shree Raama's presence in our awareness as our second nature by aligning our intellect with our Self or jeevaat-maa. (See 42

An aligned intellect keeps the mind healthy and its desires in accord with our divinity. So, the nose only smells fragrance. Ears hear only enlightening subjects and celestial music. The tongue accepts only holy or benevolent thought for speech and produces benign expressions. It likes only saatvic food. Without alignment, the mind misuses senses for the devilish play of the six passions. The nose takes snuff and drugs, the ears hear malicious gossip, and the tongue takes to rich foods, intoxicants, lying and harsh words which are all demoniac or taamasic tendencies. 

Our aligned intellect selects the noble, rejects the worth-less and curbs all desires. It shows that if we have a house we love it. Then we sell it for a piece of land we like. We sell it for profit. The money is in the bank. We are attached to our Bank passbook. Our happiness is not in the house, land, money or the passbook, all external objects, but within in the satisfaction of our prestige and greed traceable to our ego. So, an aligned intellect withdraws us from outside attractions of the world and makes us concentrate on control of passions for tapping the continual happiness available to us within. The aligned intellect smiles from a ringside seat at others' unceasing effort to seek happiness in things and their fear of not getting it or losing it all because of their inability to curb their senses, desires and passions 

323    Chaupaayi:   Main nisichara ati adhama subhaa-oo: subha aacharanu keenha nahin kaa-oo:: 
Jaasu roopa muni dhyaana na aavaa: tayhi Prabhu harashi hrida-ya mohi laavaa:: Sk47

323. Vibheeshana continued, "I am a demon of sinful nature who never followed good conduct. Even then Shree Raama, whose image even sages find difficult to form or keep secure in their minds, has happily clasped me to his bosom"

Vibheeshana called himself unholy inasmuch as his body was of a demon, his mind of demoniacal nature and his actions not meritorious. Ignoring all this, Shree Raama accepted him and offered him protection because he had a yearning for God. (See 34, 205

Why can spiritually advanced persons not visualize Shree Raama's image though they pray for it? Can this couplet refer to Shree Raama's transcendental form, which Shree Krishna showed to Arjuna? One wonders. (See Geetaa 11:52), The difficulty of keeping secure a form of God in our mind is His play for His love for all. (See 233) By this game of hide and seek He strengthens us as a seeker to pursue bliss through remembering Him. Why does He play hide and seek? He does things in an ideal human way, which we understand and respond to and are attracted by it to Him. By our attraction towards Him, He assures us of His easy availability for our intimate relationship of our choice with Him. (See 101

324    Dohaa:   Aho-bhaagya mama amita ati, Raama-kripaa-sukha-punja:
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324. Vibheeshana continued, "O Lord! By your grace, I am exceedingly fortunate to have a personal vision of the lotus feet of the Lord, the home of bliss, whom Brahmaa and Shiva love to serve."

Lotus feet of God, is a common expression in prayers to the personal God. A drink of Gangaa water or a bath in it secures its full benefit of our purification and we do not have to traverse its whole course to secure it. In the same way, just touching the feet of our personal God secures us the full benefit from Him. Lotus symbolizes purity. It does not allow even the pure dewdrops to pollute its petals. So, God's feet, which alone can be symbolically in touch with the impurities associated with the earth, are called lotus feet. 

325    Chaupaayi:   Sunahu sakhaa nija kaha-un subhaa-oo: jaana Bhushunddi Sambhu Girijaa-oo:: 
Jaun nara ho-yi charaachara-drohee: aava-yi sabha-ya sarana taki mohee:: Sk48

325. Shree Raama said to Vibheeshana, "O Friend! I tell you my nature which Shiva, Paarvatee and Kaakabhushunddi know. In his fear, if even the enemy of all the sentient and insentient trusts me and comes to me for protection. I do not forsake him." (See Geetaa 7:29) 

For the 'sentient and insentient,' please see 267[9-14] and 288. An example of the enemy of the insentient is the man's mind, which explodes the atomic bomb, recklessly pollutes environment, makes wasteful use of natural resources or destroys things for selfish gratification such as inventors of computer viruses. The expression 'a man seeking God's protection or refuge' means to pray to God to protect us from our past, recent and future errors and consequent misery. It is a prayer for changing our fate. (See Geetaa 18:66) 

Swami Ramakrishna advised a disciple to ‘give God the power of attorney. If a man entrusts his affairs to a good person, will the latter do him any harm? With all the sincerity of your heart resign yourself to God and drive all your worries out of your mind. Do whatever duties He has assigned to you.’ (RK 628) All that we can and should surrender to Him every morning is His gift of our work for daily bread and progress and, secondly, our being. We should treat our work as the best gift we deserved from our past deeds with the trust that He can give us more than our wildest dreams. If we do our work diligently and dedicate it to God with gratitude and have faith in Him, we can see how He changes our work for our better progress sooner than we think. (See 185 [2, 8, 16, 19, 24]) 

If we develop intense empathy with all fellow beings and serve selflessly to give bliss to those within our reach, empathy annihilates our egotistic 'I. ' There is nothing left to surrender to God after this. This sacrifice of the ego through service is the yajna of surrender. 

Seeking God's refuge or giving God the power of attorney or dedicating our being to God or surrendering to Him, are all the same. If we recollect our divinity first, it strengthens faith in us to resolve not to repeat wrong actions but be true, just and compassionate in our conduct. The pursuit of this resolve sincerely is the essence of surrender. (See Geetaa 9:30) We cannot undo our past now. No cere-mony of expiation is as effective as sincere repentance for our past misdeeds followed by this resolve. Having no power to do anything about our past errors, we leave all to God's mercy. So, we forget them and not allow them to plague our mind with grudge, malice or feeling of guilt. Even if we have a poor assessment of our past, we should never fear God as a punishing potentate looking for our sins. He always loves us as a mother and improves us. (See 205) We should have faith in His grace for our relief. 

For seeking God's refuge, we begin the day by praying, ‘O God, you are all I am nothing. All this and myself are yours. I shall do all for you this day. Please help me become your instrument.’ Thereafter we diligently do our work. At the end of the day we pray, ‘I have done all for you, O God. Please accept all and take me into your protection.’ We can say, ‘I am yours’ to God; we cannot say, ‘You are mine’ to God. We can be on God's side but we cannot claim that God is on our side. May be He is, is all we can say.

Surrender to God is the realization that all is God's and there is nothing that is mine including my body and mind and my daily work. They are not in my control. We should not knowingly do incorrect deeds. We cannot cheat God. 

Whenever any thought of ‘mine' comes to our mind, we should remind ourselves that it is all God's. Since all is God, there is nothing and none to surrender to and none to accept this surrender. The doer, deed and the object are all God. That is how we can mentally entrust to God all things, thoughts and deeds along with our family and loved ones and ourselves, which we consider as our own. (See 265[5, 11-12], 327) This is done as Sharabhanga did. (See 226) The effect of karma wears away if one takes refuge in God and thereafter eschews error. (RK 817) 

We need no ritual or discipline for taking refuge in or surrender to God. It is a simple, firm resolution in our mind. This simple method of surrender is not a quick fix for present adversity and a future righteous life. It may test us. (See 50) God's grace assuredly grants relief to us from adversity and helps our perseverance in righteousness manifold. After surrendering everything to God in the above manner, we should do our work diligently as His work. 

Surrender frees us from the fear of failure but not from our effort. For example, when in spite of our best effort to avoid it, we reach a painful refractory situation particularly in our family we should recall that adversity is an opportunity for turning to God. We should therefore surrender our situation and ourselves to God, detach ourselves completely, cease anxiety for success or failure of our withdrawal in surrender and leave all to God. We just do diligently what comes to us. The firmness of our faith in surrender should reflect in our outward non-action in and withdrawal from our situation. Others should rightly think that we are doing nothing to tackle the situation. We should not even tinker with any aspect of the situation. Our inward magnanimity should avoid hostility, malice, grievance towards, or impatience with members of our family. We should not be affected by their dealing with the situation in the manner they and not we think best. In effect, we approach God in the sakhaa bhaava or relationship with Him of a friend. Being at the end of our tether, we incessantly pray to Him to put in His bit as our friend. All this is our very difficult but fruitful effort. God helps our effort to secure the best for us sooner than we think by bringing about either a change in our situation or in our perspective or that of our family members to minimize the impact of the refractory situation on us. (See 163, 275 and Geetaa 4:16-22, 9:18, :22) When that relief occurs, we should accept it in silence and humility and not in the attitude of "I told you so." Surrender not merely means the surrender of our effort and ego, but also of our fear of the failure of our effort, to God. The above course is the very difficult path of action in inaction of the Geetaa. 

We should also get rid of too much of our 'I,' that is, the thinking that, separate from God, I am the doer with my body and brain. We should do our unflinching best but treat it all as God's doing. This is difficult. We should firmly believe that God is all and we are His instruments. With-out this belief, our 'I' engenders destructive pride to obstruct our surrender and progress. 

‘Performing your daily work sincerely, filling your heart with love, and feeling the presence of divinity amounts to true surrender. We can only surrender what we possess. Knowing that we do not possess our mind and body inasmuch as we cannot control their working, we cannot surrender to God our thought and speech, which emanate from the mind, and our deeds, which our body does. So, surrender means only our realization that all is God. Its form in practice is to treat all as one with us in God and serve all as our service to God.’ (SS 73 247 74 30-31) So, surrender is meaningless without selflessness in our daily conduct. We should do right even when no one is watch-ing us and even to those who can be of no use to us or do no good to us. (See 72, 185[15, 16, 19, 24]) 

We cannot exist without love. The highest form of love is where we give our all, including ourselves, to our beloved, God. We do it by always remembering that it is all God's. Thereafter we expect nothing from anyone and accept what comes to us as from God. This is a form of seeking God's refuge. 

The excessive power of our senses and passions is the form adopted by maya. (See 272[1-10, 13, 14]) To control passions we seek God's help. Implicit faith in grace and in the belief that God protects the best for us and provides the best we need for our progress, makes desires unnecessary. (See Geetaa 9:22) Desires thrive on passions and vice versa. The attitude of surrender to and of accep-tance of God's grace weakens our passions and with them desires. For example, before our surrender, we did not accept our lot as the best for us. After surrender we knew it was in God's wisdom. So, a desire for more or envy, both passions, was useless. Our diligence however in making the best of our lot invokes grace to improve our lot. 

Aurobindo said that the beginning and the end of all yogas consist in the surrender and the dedication of the self to God. We call it sharanaagati. This dedication rids us of ‘I' consciousness. When we are unaware of this ‘I,' our mind is pure and healthy because it ceases to exist for us. It happens in the same way that when we are physically healthy, we are often not conscious that we have an arm, a leg or a body. When they are unhealthy, we are constantly aware of their existence. It is difficult to be free from the awareness of the ‘I.' As long as it persists for us, the mind needs watching for pollution by desires and pas-sions. The purified mind and jeevaatmaa are one and help us see God. The 'I' is the veil or impurity of the mind, which blocks our view of God. (See 318) We reduce the opacity of the veil of the ‘I' by calling it the servant of God. 

Total dedication of the self or surrender to God does not mean giving up our intellect and mind or discrimination between right and wrong. Our controlled senses and passions and a minimum of the subdued ‘I' are left in us for the continuance of our body. Our surrender to God does not make us into a clone. On the contrary, our faculties become sharp and alert to passions. With increased capacity, we select right action. This is because we are now God's efficient instruments. This efficiency comprises freedom from need, disease and fear. It is only our conviction in the value of faith and in surrender of our work and self to God which give us repeated proofs of this efficiency. We experience these proofs in our becoming more virtuous and contented than before surrender. Mere pure reason cannot give us tangible proof of the value of any virtue or of faith nor give us experience of the benefits of surrender. It can obstruct our advance by its cynicism. 

Whether we dedicate our deeds or surrender ourselves to God or not is our exercise of free will. Nothing forces us to either course. Our surrender to God recalls our oneness with Him in our thought, word and speech for our empowerment 

326    Chaupaayi:  Taji mada moha kapatta chhala naanaa: karahun sadya tayhi saadhu samaanaa:: 
Jananee janaka bandhu suta daaraa: tanu dhana bhavana suhrida parivaaraa:: Sk48

326. Shree Raama continued, "And, he gives up the intoxication of pride, attachment, deception and hypocrisy and comes to me, I make him a seeker who is advanced on the path of self-realization. Mother, father, brother, son, wife, family, friends, his own body and his wealth and house, can be the objects of his attachment."

The meaning of the first quarter in the quatrain is also this. Shree Raama ignores errors, pride and faults and accepts the seeker as he is, to grant him refuge, remove his faults and improve him by corrective means, which he can bear and not punish him unbearably for his faults. (See 318) This meaning is appropriate because many people want to but being aware of their faults and errors or being fearful of punishment hesitate to turn to God. If they give up this fear and hesitation and seek God intensely, God removes their faults. This is the hope of the irredeemable. If only the faultless that are few were acceptable to God, how cruel God would have been for many with faults. Such a God would not be as a mother to her children, which we all are. We have no need for such a cruel God. We need and do have God who is the personification of mother’s love for all that He has created from out of Himself. We believe in Him and experience His love daily. (See 204-205

In the first couplet here, we are assured that as a hope-less sinner if we surrender to God, He takes away our suffering and gives happiness to make us aim for freedom from rebirth on the earth to reach Him as an infant reaches its mother after its naughtiness. (See Geetaa 9:30-32) God does not like tricks. If we persevere in our intimacy of relationship with God, He purifies us. We need not worry if our path to Him is correct. God corrects it. To delay surrender and continue in our wrong ways, thinking that we can seek God's refuge later is reprehensible. Without notice, death deprives us of His refuge. God does not ignore those who do not turn or surrender to Him. When worldly pleasures attract us and we are averse to God, we take a bit longer to turn to Him. We all have to reach Him in our own time. (See Geetaa 9:18) 

327    Chaupaayi:    Saba kai mamataa taaga battoree: mama pada manahin baandha bari ddoree::
Sama-darasee ich-chhaa kachhu naaheen: harasha soka bha-ya nahin mana maaheen:: k48

327. Shree Raama continued, "Man's attachment to them (mother, father, brother, son and so on) is comparable to a weak thread. He should twine together all weak threads of each separate attachment into a strong piece of rope and tie his heart with this piece with Me. He should look at everybody without any differentiation. He should not entertain any pleasant expectations or fear of disappointment from the family or others or from any correct effort in life.

Shree Raama advises us that as a householder our attachment to our family, wealth, position, name, fame, power or any acquisition, is comparable to weak tentacles, which fail to grasp satisfaction of our desires and to provide us reliable security in predicaments. Our selfish desire sometimes inconveniences, embarrasses or pains others and our whims and fancies can make us a tyrant. We may feel we gave so much to and received so little from family and others. Our wages may appear inadequate. So, we realize that it is better to seek from God than from men. (See Geetaa 9:22) 

By turning to God we twist all our weak threads of attachments to our family and others into a strong piece of rope of attachment to Him. We do that by mentally treating our diligent service to all as that to God in each. We entrust all to His care and treat all as His trust with us to look after. This mental surrender sheds our pride of the ownership of our possessions and of being the provider for our dependants. After this surrender, our work for the family ceases to be a bounden duty and a burden but becomes a gift of God's own work for us to do joyously. Shree Raama wants us not to give up desires or fear of their non-fulfilment if we cannot, but to direct both desire and fear to Him and not to others. (See 363) We are assured of the best for us and of more than what we can expect. A devotee who can call on God while living a householder's life is a hero indeed. (RK 471) If at all we need anything, we pray for relief to God and expect nothing from the family. When expectations arise from the family, our dedication of the family to God ceases. 

After thus mentally detaching ourselves from our family, our diligence in devotion to the family is a form of this love for God. The family thinks that we belong to it but we are attached to God. We should give up fear and anxiety because everything is in God's protection. By this diligence to the family and to civic duties and attachment to God, the family members and society get good or bad as the consequence of their past and present deeds and prayers. If the family had done better for itself in its past, it would have found us equipped to provide for it better. This truth frees us from blaming ourselves for our inability to do more for the family. It does not free us from our dedicated diligence to the family. Whatever the family gets is God's grace. Consequences of our acts accrue to God. We become God's instrument and devotee for twenty-four hours. (See 226, 306) Our duties are our opportunities for saadhanaa or means for material contentment and spiritual attainments. (See 111) Understanding of the concept in the instant couplets makes surrender our second nature. This nature, not time for it, secures us freedom from suffering and success in our endeavour as a householder in the thick of life. 

This householder stage is at the peak of our pressures and strains in modern life. As with our family, we should be diligent in our profession but surrender it to God. This makes our service of both selfless and thereby makes us a karmayogi to receive jnaana and salvation, the highest in life. That is why the householder stage in Varnaa-shrama Dharma is extolled as the highest of its four stages in the scriptures. It sustains all the other stages. A jnaanee can continue to live as a householder as Janaka did. 

328    Chaupaayi:   Asa sajjana mama ura basa kaisay: lobhi hrida-ya basa-yi dhana jaisay::
Tumha saarikhay santa priya moray: dharay-un dayha nahin aana nihoray:: Sk48

328. Shree Raama continued, "Such good men remain in my heart as wealth in the heart of the greedy. I love good persons as you for whom I assume a human body. In doing this, I oblige none."

For those who love God in human form, He takes a form as Shree Raama and in doing so He disowns any credit for Himself. (See 205) He does not incarnate for jnaanees, who acquire their identity with the formless Brahman as Janaka and Sharabhanga did, or for non-believers, who do not need Him. (See 241[17, 23-29]) When they need Him, Shree Raama is available to them. He incarnates both for devotees and righteous as also for the wicked and sinners because He is for all His children to be available when they need Him. For the former, He responds to their yearning to have His vision or serve Him in person and for the latter to transform them into virtuous. 

Shree Raama takes a human form to do His self-assigned task to make everyone blissful. (See 65[2- 15, 18, 20], 95) Any selfless service we do to make blissful those we can reach makes us His instrument to do His work. As His instrument we are never rusted, that is be needy, un-healthy, unhappy or inefficient. Our selflessness invokes His grace for our health, contentment and peace. (See Geetaa 3:22-24, 5:25

329    Dohaa:    Saguna upaasaka para-hita,-nirata, neeti-drirhha-nayma:
Tay nara praana samaana mama, jinha kay dvija-pada-prayma:: Sk48

329. Shree Raama continued, "I love those as my life, who worship God with form, are set to help others, follow good norms, are self-disciplined and have love for Brahmins"

Shree Raama is shown to sum up here the basics needed for a healthy society which is dear to Him. These basics are his worship, which comprises service to God of our choice. (See 444). They include benevolence for all (See 259), self-discipline or control over our senses and passions. (See 272, 322) They are observance of good social norms or following our innate nature or dharma. (See 242) They include respect for Knowledge, which is symbolized by good Brahmins. (See 157) Equality, law, order and progress need these qualities in that order today. Shree Raama defines here a dharma for man as man and not only for Hindus. (Shree Raama's Advice to Vibheeshana Ends)

330    Chaupaayi:   Kaadara-mana kanhu ayka adhaaraa: daiva daiva aalasee pukaaraa:: Sk51

330. Lakshmana said, "A coward has only one recourse, a god. He remains lazy and always cries to a god for help."

Correctly following tradition, Shree Raama first prayed to the ocean to give passage for his army. The mention of any alternative step would have amounted to a threat and made his prayer insincere. The ocean did not yield. Upon this, Lakshmana's hot temper made him say to Shree Raama, what some of the less informed followers of the pure Advaita of the impersonal Brahman say about some devotees of a personal God of Dvaita and Vishishtta-advaita. (See 241[30, 35]) 

In pure Advaita, we are responsible for our own deeds because there is no separate personal God sitting in heaven to bestow grace for our protection, help and bliss. Therefore as an Advaitin on the path of Knowledge, we are self-reliant. (See 241[19]) In Dvaita and Vishishtta-advaita, as God's instrument, we appear weak to rely upon God. (See 275, 325

The strength of the Advaitin is self-reliance through his identity with the impersonal Brahman. The strength of the devotee is self-abnegation and reliance upon, or tears of love for his personal God. (See 247) Both seekers derive their strength from the same God in his impersonal and personal aspects. Neither seeker is powerful by himself. The moment the Advaitin treats his strength as his own he becomes proud which brings him down. (See 438) A devotee is saved from a fall by his humility of surrender to God and by his faith in the victory of love. 

To purify his mind, the Advaitin also has to follow the paths of devotion and of dedicated deeds to a personal God as Shree Raama. These two paths are given in the Shree Ramacharita Maanasa to purify the Advaitin’s mind to make it fit for the path of Knowledge of Advaita. (See 17, 241[23], 243, 437) The Book becomes a guide for followers of different paths in Vedanta for reaching God. 

331    Dohaa:    Bina-ya na maanata jaladhi jarha, ga-yay teeni dina beeti:
Bolay Raama sakopa taba, bha-ya binu ho-yi na preeti:: Sk57

331. For three days the ocean did not respond to Shree Raama's humble prayer. He angrily said, "An obstinate fool comes round only by fear." 

The present context of the story refers to statecraft. In that context the word preeti in the instant couplet means only consent and co-operation, not human love or affection. Without instilling fear or threat, the obstinate fool does not listen to or cooperate with common sense. Ignoring the context, perverse male chauvinists make the last five words in the couplet a proverb or conventional wisdom that they cannot get any form of love without instilling fear in their spouse. This attitude denies respect to and lowers women for them to become a mere disposable commodity for men’s lust as in some societies. (Proverbial wisdom of the fools)

332    Chaupaayi:   Sattha sana bina-ya kuttila sana preetee: sahaja kripina sana sundara neetee::
Mamtaa-rata sana jnaana kahaanee: ati lobhee sana birati bakhaanee::
Krodhihi sama kaamihin Hari-kathaa: Oosara beeja ba-yay phala jathaa:: Sk58

332. Observing the unresponsive nature of the ocean, Shree Raama said, "These efforts are similar to sowing seeds on barren soil. To offer humility to an obstinate fool, affection to a crook and propriety to a miser, to talk of spirituality to an egotist, of non-attachment to the greedy, of control over senses and passions to a man in anger, and of the glory of God to a lustful man."

Lust, anger and greed are paths to hell. (See 313) Shree Raama advises us not to talk about spirituality with men under the influence of the six passions. They do not understand noble concepts enumerated above. These and the wicked, particularly egotists, hide their attitude. (See 297, 398, 464) Spirituality or religious beliefs and experi-ences of God's grace should be talked about in a comp-any, which is sincere to learn from others’ experience and strengthen its faith in beliefs. Shree Raama mentions here seven faults as obstacles to, and their opposite as virtues for progress in our path. Control over our senses and passions, eliminates all faults. (See 272 [10, 11, 14-16]) (A Proverb)

333    Dohaa:   Kaatayhi pa-yi kadalee phara-yi, kotti jatana ko-u seencha:
Bina-ya na maana Khagaysha sunu, ddaanttayhi pai nava neecha::   Sk58

333. Narrating Shree Raama's story to Garurha, Kaakabhushunddi said, "A man can try to nourish a banana tree with water in as many ways as possible, but it bears fruit only when it is pruned. Similarly, O Garurha, a wicked man ignores humility but bows down to might."

Banana tree needs a treatment different from what is normal for other trees. Similarly, the wicked do not respond to normal treatment. Hence the role Varnaa-shrama Dharma allots to Kshatriyas for order in, and protection of society from the wicked. Shree Raama is shown to caution us elsewhere that wickedness should never be surmised or judged except by a mind free of the six passions. (See 389) (A Proverb)

334    Chaupaayi:   Ddhola ganvaara soodra pasu naaree: sakala taarhnaa kay adhikaaree:: Sk59

334. The ocean god said, "A drum, an ignorant rustic, a Sudra, an animal and a woman all can be beaten when they deserve it."

When Shree Raama threatened to dry up the ocean, the ocean god appeared and asked for forgiveness by equating himself with five entities mentioned above for similar treatment when they are unresponsive or obstinate. 

This couplet is not a biased generalization against women, which some superficial readers of the Shree Raamacharita Maansa take it to be. They hold it as male chauvinist Tulaseedaasa's own precept. These readers quote this couplet to reject women's wise counsel. Raavana, in his blind pride, also rejected Mandodaree's advice. He could not see that she was free from faults and was a jnaanee. (See 340

The crucial word in the couplet is adhikaaree. It  means what can be deserved by, and not what is obligatory towards, each of the five entities. All rustics, Sudras, animals and women do not always deserve a beating. When necessary, they may be beaten. Some persons even if they are not Sudras, may become unresponsive and obstinate in their foolishness. Whether these persons are women or men, the state may bring them round by beating. Restrained corporal punishment is more deterrent and economical than long terms in a comfortable jail in modern society. This is proved by the state of Singapore, which practises it by law. ‘Maar kay aagay bhoot naachtaa hai,’ is an old Hindi proverb. It means that even the evil spirit in a wicked man dances to our tune when we thrash him physically. 

We beat a drum when we need a response. If it could boom when we needed its response, we would not beat it; so also with a man, a woman or with an animal. We find obstinate foolishness in a man or a woman equally some time or the other in Brahmins, Kshatriyas and Vaishyas varnas too. The Author does not know Tualseedaasa’s reason for the omission of these castes. The unskilled or Sudra are generally wise, intelligent and responsive. 

Trained bullocks, elephants, horses and dogs are seldom beaten. 

Shree Raama picked up the fiery arrow to punish the ocean god. It was not incorrect. The god was being obstinate in not responding to Shree Raama's humble and harmless prayer. So, the ocean god deserved to be beaten for his obstinacy. 

Women's faults are found in later Shastras. We should not look for faults in women. (See 389) When men were helpless before women under the influence of passions or maya, or they became ignorant, they found faults in women. Being the product of maya or ignorance, these faults should be rejected regardless of scriptures. (See Geetaa 18:63) In 120, are faults expressed in anger by citizens of Ayodhyaa, in 172, out of Bharata's attachment to Shree Raama and in 340 out of Raavana's pride. 

Tulaseedaasa knew of the reverence and the high status women enjoyed in India in the earliest scriptures or Shrutis. Manu's Smriti, a later scripture deprived women the respect the Shrutis gave them in India. Manu can be said to have introduced Smritic Hinduism in India. This Hinduism reflected a fall in society. So, the Hindu Law in India before 1958 is based upon Yaajnavalkya's Smriti. Woman preserves the country's culture and the country is adored as mother, hence Bhaarata Maataa or ‘Mother India.’ 

The earliest scriptures of Sanaatana Dharma give pre-eminence to woman. Our body organs for receiving knowledge, jnaanayndriyas and for action, karmayndriyas; liberation from rebirth, mukti; the primal energy, shakti; the power of creation, maya; the creation itself, srishtti; and the easiest and royal path to God, namely, devotion or bhakti; are all given a feminine name. Even Shree Raama could not perform his task without Seetaa. A wife is necessary for the Varnaashrama Dharma. She is the goddess of wealth for the householder. Goddesses of both wealth and wisdom are Saraswatee and Lakshmee. A woman even precedes the husband as a component in his name such as Lakshmee-Naaraayana, Seetaa-Raama and Umaa-Shankara.

Some Smritis or the dharma of the age and later scriptures reveal a downward change in norms of society, for example, the subordination of women. This change is temporary for the age or times. 

Tulaseedaasa greatly praised Kaushalyaa, Sumitraa, Ahalyaa, Shabaree, Mandodaree and Seetaa. Contrary to the views of some scholars, Tulaseedaasa was neither biased against women nor were their faults his concoction. He merely showed men's greater susceptibility than women's to the six passions and through them the working of maya in men. Maya creates for the unwise faults in women where there are none. The wise are free from maya and do not accept non-existing faults in women. They care for them, provide them chaste love, security and leisure for self-expression and treat them as their inseparable half. They enjoy the intangible power, which they receive from women's response from this treatment. (See 222) The unwise and worldly that are slaves of their six passions, particularly lust, treat woman as a dispos-able commodity to make society sick. This conduct necessitates women's liberation movement for self-respect and empowerment. 

335    Dohaa:     Sakala sumangala daayaka Raghu-naayaka-guna-gaana:
Saadara sunahin tay tarahin bhava-sindhu binaa jala-jaana:: Sk60

335. The narration of Shree Raama's virtues, the story of his glorious deeds and its message, bestows all bliss upon the seeker. By listening to it with reverential devotion and understanding, a man is able, without a boat, to cross the worldly ocean of rebirth on the earth. 

We are all on the bank of material existence, which is not free from suffering. We can cross over the river of life or the ocean of rebirth to the bank of material, mental and spiritual happiness in life without a boat in the manner described here. (For Shree Raama's Devotee)


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